“With cuddle therapists, you’re hiring their time, attention and care. It’s more than just hugging a stranger.”
Need Reassurance: Professional ‘Cuddler’ Offers Hugs For Sale
Meet the ‘professional cuddler’ whose clients are queuing up to pay 75 British pounds, about $88, for a hug that lasts an hour.
Trevor Hooton, 30, who goes by ‘Treasure’ set up a business several months back – which offers ‘cuddle therapy’.
Treasure, who is based in Bristol, located to the southwest of England, in the United Kingdom, charges for the hour-long cuddle session through his business: ‘Embrace Connections,’ which also offers other services including ‘connections coaching’ to help people struggling to build relationships with others.
Treasure explained what the practice offers is more than just a hug.
Treasure admitted not everyone understands exactly what his business offers – which some even mistake it for sex work.
But for Treasure, professional cuddling is not as novel a concept as it seems, and believes everyone should consider it.
Treasure, who is originally from Montreal, Canada, said: “I built a business based on my passions for building human connections.
“Many people struggle to make those and that’s where I step in – it’s more than just cuddling, it’s giving people the things they need, whatever that might be.
“With cuddle therapists, you’re hiring their time, attention and care. It’s more than just hugging a stranger,” Treasure said, adding that the practice pours in “care, affection and goodwill through that touch.”
“Some people do find it a little awkward at first, but that’s totally normal, and they quickly feel comfortable.
“People should ask themselves ‘if you could have an hour to do nothing but feel cared for, supported and loved, how would it make you feel?'”
Treasure first began looking into the science behind human connections ten years ago, and found it fascinating.
But it wasn’t until last year that Treasure began turning it into a business, which was launched in May 2022.
‘Embrace Connections’ offers a range of different services – including its most popular, ‘connections coaching’ – a session which aids your ability to build relationships with others.
But the one which fascinates people the most is ‘cuddle therapy’ – where people pay for a cuddle.
Describing the service, Treasure said: “It’s always a non-sexual, platonic intimacy, based on whatever the person wants.
“We meet, go over guidelines to ensure we’re on the same page, and then structure the session based on what they want and their boundaries.
“There is a lot of checking in to see how they feel and what they want – whatever helps them to feel safe and calm.”
Treasure said that the unusual service is different for everybody – and it can take some work to find the most effective approach.
Treasure even confessed it can be a little uncomfortable at first – but that it is worth it in the end.
Treasure explained: “It can be awkward, it’s a weird thing and not typical for most people to step into being intimate with a stranger.
“People come with their own insecurities or preconceptions but I do my best to help find a place where they are comfortable.
“And if the person starts to feel the start of something sexual, we communicate about that and back off, because it needs to be non-sexual intimacy.”
While the service may sound unappealing to some, Treasure explained there’s a lot more to it than just hugging a stranger, adding that cuddle theory must be understood, including both the psychological and medical background.
Treasure said: “It’s about communication and building trust – when you hire a cuddle therapist, you are hiring their time, attention and care.
“When I am giving a hug to someone, I’m pouring in care, affection and goodwill through that touch.
“Hugging a stranger doesn’t do much, it has to be someone who cares about you.”
In fact, Treasure reckons people are missing out not knowing the service is out there – and in fact, professional cuddling it “not a novel service.”
Besides hugs, the practice offer relationship coaching for a little over the equivalent of 100 dollars for 90 minutes, pair massage classes for around 117 British pounds ($140) for 90 minutes, and individual or couples’ AcroYoga at about 58 British pounds ($70) for one hour.
But Treasure thinks more people would be interested in cuddle therapy – or one of their other offerings – if people knew more about it and what it really is.
They said: “People have mistaken what I do for being an escort service, or prostitution.
“I can understand people might think it, but that’s not what I do.
“It’s just about helping people to feel good, safe and calm through human touch.
“If someone is on the fence about whether to give it a go, I’d tell them to ask themselves this:
“If you could have an hour to do nothing but feel cared for, supported and loved, how would it make you feel?”
While Treasure has only been working on Embrace Connections full time for a few months, they say they are “confident” it will become a success as they expand the list of offerings over time.
Treasure’s services can be booked on Yuup – https://www.yuup.co/hosts/embrace-connections
Or visit Treasure’s website – http://embrace-connections.com/
Produced in association with SWNS.